We will learn to support their right to live their lives, separate from ours, and view this as healthy. We will not become angry with others we have strong feelings for at having their own lives.We will experience less and little pain and disappointment since we are not living based upon our fantasy’s expectations and hopes.We allow them to be as they are, with their own feelings, needs and desires, that might be different than ours. We will become able to truly relate to, share, connect and even respect the boundaries of others we care about and desire.Nothing is about to fall apart because our lives are a seamless whole. We will live each day in greater wholeness, as there is less, little, or no separation between our inner worlds and our outer worlds.
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